We have heard before that we can’t control anyone else’s behaviour, and we can’t make another person change. But what happens when we, as individuals — as Men and Women — expect the other to change?
Not only do we start to ignore their unique qualities as individuals, but we begin to undermine their strengths. As women, we naturally know how to evoke emotion, create intimacy and lead from the heart to inspire action. We know how to make people feel good. Men lead by winning, they love the rewards that come from doing their best and pleasing those around them—and they want to do their job and perform it well.